Cold Spaghetti

Technically, Born to be Wild is Kate’s song. But fast-movin’ along on his bike (complete with Lightning McQueen head and knee gear), Will gives her a run for it.
Kate made her own wild woman moves. Chasing Will around… shoeless. (See Paul carrying the first shoe?)
Baby toes on the sidewalk.

1. Emailed Blogger.
2. Read this.
3. Used a free Copyright button. It looks awful. Anyone out there with a copy of Photoshop and some skills to make something that looks better?
4. Do what blogger said I have to do… I guess this will happen instead of sleep, making the kids’ lunches, cleaning the house, or finishing the changes to my third draft and getting informal committee feedback before setting a defense date? Argh.
5. Appeal to thems in the know for advice and guidance.

Apparently, dealing with blog-stealing creeps is more difficult than I assumed. Blogger has adopted a “it’s your problem, do the work” attitude. Their response, below:

Hi there,

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infringement that comply with the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (the
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information), a company that sent an infringement notification seeking
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I feel so violated. Little coldspaghetti has been ripped off. Thanks to a friend’s tip off, I found out that this blog is being translated into German and re-posted on another blogspot site to generate ad revenue for some nefarious folk. Here is my letter to blogger:

Dear Blogger,

Thanks to a friend’s tipoff, I discovered that my blog content and photographs are being copied — translated to German — and posted online. I assume this is for ad revenue as the links at the bottom of the page would suggest. This is the German blog with the stolen content: http://populartravel.blogspot.com/2007/09/kalte-spaghetti-der-ein-strand-von.html

I’ve posted to my own blog about it, am reviewing your steps to prevent content being copied (found in the help section of the blogger site), and am writing you to request that you take down this German copied site since it is hosted through blogspot.com.

I am grateful for your assistance and sincerely appreciate your time and attention in this matter.

Looking forward to your response,
Holly (coldspaghetti.blogspot.com)

Jeez-la-wheeze!

Paul went to Juggling Club on Saturday for the first time in a long, long time. After naptime, we joined him in the park.
Both kids tested my sanity with the fountain. The fountain where dog walkers bring their dogs to take a dip, a drink and whatever else. Kate likes to stick her hand in the water… and then lick that hand. Ugh.

Will was obsessed with the water fountain and determined to use it, again and again, BY HIMSELF. Mostly, I think he just enjoyed the climbing challenge… and the fact that it took all my strength to not see him falling and breaking his head on the cement below.

The met some fun kids who live nearby and had a great time in Audubon Park.

Perhaps in part to the dramatic developmental leap he has taken (more on this later), or perhaps just because his bladder is developing faster than the sensors in his brain, or perhaps just because it’s totally normal… Will is wetting the bed. A lot. Like, every night.

Before you say, “use a Pull-Up!” let me make it clear that each and everyone of these accidents are occurring with a pull-up. We’ve instilled no water before bedtime rules, wake him up in the middle of night to use the potty, and have had detailed discussions about it being okay to get out of bed to use the bathroom anytime. Still, the morning comes and we’re greeted by a very wet bed.

Is it that the pull-ups just can’t handle the fill? We are using “Easy-Ups” — which are actual pull-on diapers. We’ve had the most success with these (versus the feel-n-learn variety which don’t hold much). Maybe it’s the fit? The form? Should we use underwear over the pull-up to hold it closer to his body?

Do any readers have experience with this? Any ideas??? We’re getting really tired of washing his sheets every morning!

They can’t actually be serious.

I wish this had come out earlier, it would have been interesting in the focus groups… to hear what case managers working so hard with so little would say about this. Their phones will probably be ringing off the hooks tomorrow morning. One more thing for which people need help and have no where to turn.

I’m a little baffled by it, too. Mostly by this part:

The IRS decided only late last year that the grants would be taxable.

Maybe I’m misunderstanding things, but isn’t it a bit irresponsible for the IRS to decide to tax something WAY after it’s been paid out? How is it okay to just change the rules after the fact? Particularly when the grant is for home-rebuilding and is going directly towards the costs associated with construction and repair? I don’t know of any folk who put Road Home money into a “rainy day” fund, just in case something else came along. And it wasn’t like the application had a line item for tax overhead. The kind of estimates that went into applications for Road Home money didn’t leave a lot of room for wiggle. Some folks had to get multiple estimates on repairs until one came that was low enough to be acceptable on the application.

Do we really need another layer of red tape in this process? More rules means more labor, more overhead, and more cost to the program that isn’t getting put in rebuilding. Things shouldn’t be this hard. Who is benefiting from all this hassle?

… a family of four actually enjoyed a morning in The Big Park (as Will calls it) playing amongst Fairy-Tale characters. A pictorial representation follows:

In Cinderella’s pumpkin carriage (hence the color).
It wasn’t that Kate didn’t try to do the slide by herself. It’s that we were afraid to let her.


Watch out for that Ole’ King Cole.

In the rocket below, Will flew us to the Moon (“here you have to bounce like they do on the Moon”), to Mars (“wait, that’s too far, let’s go back”) and back to Earth (“watch out, Katey, you pressed the wrong one… auuuugggghhhhh”).

Feeble attempts at photograph with two children looking in the same direction.
“Watch, Mommy. THIS is how mountain climbers get off of TALL MOUNTAINS.”

Favorite fashion trend: Wearing clothes backwards. He’s been doing this for months, we’re just surprised it’s still en la moda. Today, he upped it a notch by putting on his shirt not only backwards, but inside out.
Favorite past-time: Singing. Will now sings almost non-stop all day. In fact, there are times when he insists we ONLY sing in conversation: NO TALKING ALLOWED.
Favorite show: Wonder Pets. (Haven’t heard of it? Just ask Will. He’ll sing it all to you. Really.)

On Colors: “Brown and Black are my favorite colors because they so beautiful.”
On Shoes: “My brown shoes are the fastest because they are brown and they make me run fast.”
On Star Wars: “Mommy, you and Daddy are adults so you are old enough for Star Wars toys. So YOU should buy some Star Wars toys. And then, you can share them with me.”
On Waking Up: “I need an alarm clock so I know when to get out of bed.”
On Kate: “She’s our Sweet Girl.”
On Kate’s diapers: “ANOTHER diaper?!? She’s a Super Pooper.”
On Being a Big Brother: “(audible sigh) Yeah, it’s really tough sometimes.”
On Scout: “He really loves me.”
On Mommy: “I love you more than the loudest rocket ship ever blasted!”