October 2005

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We are home!

It feels so good to be home that I hardly have words to describe it. We love this house, we love this neighborhood, and yes, problems and craziness and poor government and everything else, we love New Orleans. I love this antique, leaky, airy old house and am so happy to be back within it.

As for the rest of the city… I honestly do not know what to say. We came in over the I-10 bridge (one side of which is newly opened) and gawked at the sister span where every connection between the sections was busted or uneven. Airal photographs may capture the situation, but no nothing to represent how incredible it is to see. East New Orleans is simply gone. I cannot imagine what will be done with these huge neighbors — street after street of devistation: grocery store, homes, shopping malls, everything flooded and destroyed by winds. I’m not sure what else I can say to describe it.

Seeing our neighborhood, rough on the edges as it is, has given us faith in the city and in our futures here. We are so happy to be home.

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First Find!


Paul and Will at our first geocache find! (The cache is a log cabin on the porch — a pretty easy and fun one for us beginners!) We left a toy Elmo doll and took a sticker book for Will, a back massager for me, and a travel bug to plant somewhere else! Posted by Picasa

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Will selects a sticker book prize out of our *first* found geocache! Wilson’s Travel Bug Hotel Cache in Mississippi! We picked up the Tea Travel Bug, who started in the UK and likes to visit coffee and tea houses all over the world!

Unfortunately, our next try didn’t turn out so great. After both of us stomped through sticky, thorny bushes and refuse around a fence that was destroyed in the hurricane, we gave up. Turns out that it was likely carried off with clean-up debris — there were front loaders all over the location. We found out when we checked in on the web that it was noted as missing that morning. Posted by Picasa

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Mama’s Cradle

We made the hour ride out to Pensacola, Florida, this afternoon for our second appointment with Vicky Taylor, the President and Licensed Midwife of Mama’s Cradle, the birth center we’ve chosen for our coming delivery. Her Center offers a variety of services: Bradley classes, home birth, center birth, water birth, VBAC deliveries, and more. With my dreams of giving birth in our home in New Orleans dashed (several problems: lack of providers and absence of a big tub, for example) Mama’s Cradle became an almost default choice as the closest birth center to New Orleans (3 hours away).

To be a client at Mama’s Cradle, you must show commitment to natural childbirth through proper preparation and diet and plan on breastfeeding. When she gave me the low-down during our first conversation, I quickly realized that this was going to be a great place for us. With every visit, we feel better and better about Vicky and the Center.

The entire service — labs, appointments, labor, delivery, and post-partum visits — is $3800 for a Center birth and $3200 for a home birth. We want to leave the door open for the small chance of a birth closer to home, so Vicky has been charging us accordingly: $200 for our first visit and full work-up labs, $80 for each visit after — to be deducted from our starting amount ($3800) should we deliver with her (something we feel pretty sure about right now). After reading Gwen’s blog about the cost of her pregnancy and delivery (over $12,000 for a non-complicated pregnancy and vaginal delivery) I figure it’s a great deal. The irony is that my c-section and related hospitalization afterwards was well into the $20,000 range — but we never paid a penny. Just think of what they would have saved if providers were trained in breech delivery and covered home birth! We’ll probably end up paying more for this birth than the last, even though this one will be significantly less cost. Still we may have a chance: because Vicky is a licensed midwife within the state of Florida, we are more likely to get reimbursement from insurance.

Today we heard the heartbeat for the first time! With a pulse at about 160 (roughly twice my own at the time) Number Two came through strong and regular. No indications of a Number Three, and although it’s still too early to tell, we remain confident that only one creature is currently making residence in my womb. I got kudos for great iron levels, consistent with pre-pregnancy levels, we talked about more about diet (I’ve been keeping a log), and about upcoming appointments. We decided against the Triple Screen for a variety of reasons (I’ll blog about that decision process later) and instead, will schedule two ultrasounds: one at 20 weeks and one at 30 weeks.

Because I am a VBAC delivery (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) we’ve had to jump through a few more hoops than usual to show that all is okay. Vicky has a great history and total comfort with VBACs — something hard to find these days — and is just about the greatest advocate around. In the sea of craziness and uncertainity around us these days, it is a relief to feel so good about something!

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The secret cyst

In preparation for our midwife appointment, I read through my medical records last night to get the details on my c-section suture. What an interesting read it turned out to be. According to the operative report, a .5 x .5 mm specimen from a 3 x 3 mm cyst on my left ovary was sent to pathology for biopsy. I had no idea. No one told me anything about it.

Granted, I did not have a follow-up after my cesarean, so maybe they were going to tell me about it then. I have no idea of the results of the biopsy, although I feel confident that someone would have gotten around to calling me if there had been a problem. And considering it’s been two years of health since then, I have no concerns. Like most ovarian cysts, it’s probably gone by now anyway. My only issue is… no one told me!

Knowing that they sliced me open, dragged out my major organs, flipped my uterus inside-out, tubes and pipes all hanging around it, and then stuffed them all back in (very gently, I’m sure) — that is one thing. And it’s fine that they found something and decided to test it. But the fact that it was never mentioned… that creeps me out. What else is going on under those harsh lights?

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Geocaching Adventure #1

Having finally acquired the GPS he has so ardently admired, Paul got us ready for our first trip Geocaching. For those uninitiated, geocaching is when, using a GPS, you seek out hidden treasure via the lines of latitude and longitude. Folks hide things all over the world, give the coordinates, and other folks find them.

So we set off on our first adventure. Our intention was to find the “Bug Spray Required” cache, located less than a half-mile from my parents’ house. Paul got mixed up in the research of the cache and thought it was a wheelchair-accessible find (we should have taken heed of the fact that the name was “Bug Spray Required”). It wasn’t wheelchair accessible. After walking through a construction site in the middle of a retirement community and sliding down a steep drop to the treeline, we stomped through the start of the woods only to turn around when we found we’d have to scale an embankment and cross a stream to get to the location. Not the best idea with flip-flops and a toddler. So, we headed home, without the joy of adding our names to the list of that particular cache. *sigh*

It was a learning experience. We’ll be better equipped next time.

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Will: The Geocaching Explorer


Will, looking supa-fly as we check out the potential geocache site. Posted by Picasa

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You can see from the arrow that we were close… just not willing to brave the woods, creek, and embankment with flip-flops and Will. Posted by Picasa

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I can already taste the chicory

New Orleans’ favorite coffee stand is reopening. It’s time to go home.

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One more conference try!

I got wind of the call for abstracts for the conference for the Society for Applied Anthropology. The conference is the last weekend in March in Vancouver, a top on our must-see travel list (especially because of the possibility of meeting up with friends Katherine and Randy!) The SfAA is a conference I’d really like to attend. So, I quickly signed up and submitted my abstract and hope to be selected to present a poster — seeing as I’ll be hugely pregnant by then, I decided to keep it simple with a poster. Fingers crossed for good news about this one.

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